Control
Being able to let go of something, in part, comes from being able to let go of Control. It’s accepting that there are some things that you just can’t control, no matter how much you want or try to.
To me, the idea of not being in control of something, of my destiny, is absolutely terrifying.
If not now, then when? (Part 2)
I’ve learned to listen more, to slow down and honour what my body feels, for it is an act of self-care that is necessary for perspective. Interestingly, it can sometimes be overtaken by a feeling of lethargy that makes you ask if you are not doing enough. Sometimes that feeling is valid, but as the feeling persists, it sometimes makes me wonder if there isn’t another message being whispered, saying that something else is needed
If not now, then when?
If not now, then when?
Tell yourself that every day, like a Mantra you whisper in your mind whenever you ask yourself if you should suppress the superhero you see and know yourself to be in your mind. And make no mistake you are one.
It’s all the small actions you take every day to lift yourself out of your hardships, to breathe life into the reality you’ve created for yourself, to bring moments of joy to the people who cross your path. To create, to make, to live, to exude greatness in all moments of your life, both big and small.
Love or Just in Love With it?
Ask yourself whether what you’re looking for is a grand experience or someone to pass the time. Is it out of longing or out of confidence? Are you confident in who you are or aren’t you? These aren’t hard to answer, but it’s bloody difficult to get to the answer you need.
It’s the difference between Love and Ego.
It’s the difference between being Alone and being Lonely.
You need to embrace rejection, seriously. (Updated)
Every time I have made the decision to move forward, in success or failure, I have learned and experienced more joy than I could have ever dreamed of than if I had made the choice to make no choice at all.
And so my observation is this. Embrace rejection. Embrace it.
Hearing the truth about the one who got away
In the meantime, you tell yourself whatever story you need to, that you can hold onto, that you can build your hopes on, with the idea that maybe over time, or one day, you can change their mind and they will see the light at last… but still the truth remains the same: they just aren’t as invested in the same future that you see.
Acceptance
In accepting the lessons we’re meant to, in the time we’re meant to, we give ourselves permission to rise to the worth we always believed ourselves to be and that raging storm that strips away at our dignity and self-worth turns into a cleansing rain.
In our pain, we begin to learn and we slowly begin to wash off the moss and the mold of our insecurities that once ate away at us, giving way to new blessings and a purer, healthier love.