Control
Being able to let go of something, in part, comes from being able to let go of Control. It’s accepting that there are some things that you just can’t control, no matter how much you want or try to.
To me, the idea of not being in control of something, of my destiny, is absolutely terrifying.
Love or Just in Love With it?
Ask yourself whether what you’re looking for is a grand experience or someone to pass the time. Is it out of longing or out of confidence? Are you confident in who you are or aren’t you? These aren’t hard to answer, but it’s bloody difficult to get to the answer you need.
It’s the difference between Love and Ego.
It’s the difference between being Alone and being Lonely.
Accepting the Expiration Date
As a result, I live by the rule of the expiration date: the understanding that there is a fixed time limit that cannot or should not be exceeded. At some point, it will become necessary to end things.
Regardless of good times, strong connections or, of course, love, it is understood between both parties that things will end. It's not a cold process. It's something that comes from understanding one another, the environment, the situation and the moment in time. It's painful, certainly, but it's something that is almost necessary to maintain sanity.
You’re Alone, and that’s okay (updated)
Ultimately, you are the pioneer of your life.
You are the protagonist of your adventure.
Take the time to find out who you are and what you love. Learn about your flaws and for all the ones you might have, learn to love each of them.
They are you.